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Talk it Out: Unpacking Relationships
with Vanessa

About this Space

Sometimes, even those closest to us can create uncertainty in our lives, whether through conflicting advice or a lack of understanding.

Navigating relationships, whether familial, intimate, or platonic, can be challenging when those you trust can't offer the support you need. Talk it Out gives you the opportunity to openly and honestly explore the dynamics of meaningful relationships.

Confidentiality is a core value here, ensuring that you can share your experiences and feelings freely, without fear of judgment or misinterpretation.

My goal is to create an environment where you can connect with others who truly understand the intricacies of relationships and provide meaningful support. I prioritize discussing tough topics without the interference of unsolicited advice or diagnoses.

Talk it Out is for people who identify as She and She/They.

Sample Prompts:

  • What is something you need that you don't believe your partner can give you?
  • What's been weighing on you and this relationship?
  • Is there something you're afraid to ask for?
  • How have you moved passed issues in the past? Were these issues resolved, or brushed aside?
  • Where do you find communication breakdowns?

If you age with somebody, you go through so many roles—you’re lovers, friends, enemies, colleagues, strangers; you’re brother and sister. That’s what intimacy is if you’re with your soulmate.” –Cate Blanchett

Meet the Keeper

Vanessa is a Los Angeles-based musician, writer, and recovering hot mess. She's confronted many challenges, from battling undiagnosed depression, to grappling with identity struggles, and fully acknowledges the difficulty of handling complex emotions alone. Through her journey of self-improvement, she's learned how to take action in her life, turning negative …

Reach out to the Keeper: vanessa@totem.org
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